Positive Reinforcement
One of the cornerstones to improving the life of an autistic child is to focus on positive reinforcement and affirmation. As stated previously, negative behaviors are one of the challenges autistic children face, and the idea is to transform the negative behaviors into positive ones. The positive reinforcement approach manages expectations of your child and builds self-esteem.
The idea is to acknowledge and reward (within reason) your child’s positive behavior. There are several ways to acknowledge positive behavior, including verbal praise, their favorite treat, and an activity. The idea of positive reinforcement is to show that, over time, this method can lead to the development of new skills and positive behavior.
Activities to accompany the parenting style:
Communication-Based
Children with ASD have various degrees of communication challenges, and this is often the most frustrating provocation. This makes communicated-based parenting one of the most crucial parenting styles since effective communication can ease stress and anxiety.
A communication-based parenting style includes using clear and concise language, incorporating visual aids where necessary, and using alternative communication methods such as sign language. Autistic children should be encouraged to express themselves positively, using a method or approach suited for them.
Activities to accompany the parenting style:
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Arts and creativity: Look at activities that include a form of self-expression. There are several ways to do this through art. A pro tip: use different textures when your child is creating art, helping them with sensory activity, too.
Sensory Based
Children with ASD experience sensory overload, and when they become overwhelmed, it can lead to unfortunate instances of stress. Supporting your child and creating sensory-friendly environments is paramount for their continued growth and development. The sensory-based parenting style focuses on sensory sensitivities which affect a child’s daily life. So, what does it entail for the parent?
The aim is to be mindful of your child’s sensitivities and create an environment that minimizes sensory overload. While this might seem impossible initially, parents should look at things such as lighting, noise levels, and texture. It is advised to incorporate activities that include sensory needs, like fidget toys or even calming spaces to relax if they become overwhelmed.
Activities to accompany the parenting style:
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Sensory bins: These can be filled with rice, sand, or beans to play around with texture.
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Temperature: Explain different temperatures using touch; for example, showcase extreme cold with an ice block and allow them to touch it lightly.
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Play-based: Look at finger painting and water play.
